For Family of POW
WAITING IS ALMOST OVER
BY JERRI OSBORN American Staff Writer
It's almost over for the slim, pretty
woman whose quiet manner doesn't hide the excitement in her eyes.
Six years and five months of first
not knowing and then accepting and waiting are coming to a close
for Mrs. Louis F. Makowski of Midland.
She was notified Thursday that POW
Lt. Col. Makowski is among those to be released today.
TALKING EASILY and openly about her
husband's capture in North Vietnam in 1966 and its effect on her
and her family, Mrs. Makowski radiated joy and optimism even when
reports indicated POW releases would be delayed.
"Oh yes," she said softly,
"I had some apprehension. I think that is only natural."
But then came Thursday and the long
awaited call.
Plans for the homecoming of a father
and a husband were made long before then, however.
"We've been ready since the cease
fire was announced in January," Mrs. Makowski smiled. "All
the kids have their plans.
"RHODA KNOWS just exactly what
she is going to wear for the first time he sees her. "
Rhoda, 7, the youngest child of the
couple wasn't even walking when her father left. She is now in
the second grade at St. Ann's Catholic School.
"Matt has plans to go fishing
and hunting, and to football games," Mrs. Makowski continued.
He has missed doing the things with a father like the other boys
do. "
MATTHEW, 13, last heard his father's
voice the day before he entered the first grade.
Cheryl, 16, a junior in high school,
is keeping most of her plans to herself. Cheryl has passed out
POW bracelets bearing her father's name to friends. All members
of the family are wearing Makowski's POW bracelet, also.
When Lt. Col. Makowski, a navigator,
was shot down over North Vietnam the Air Force reported him "missing
in action" but USAF personnel reassured his wife that "he
had a good 'chute. "
Makowski's pilot was rescued.
"THOSE YEARS he was MIA were the
hardest," Mrs. Makowski recalled. "It's just that you
didn't know anything one way or the other."
Letters from Makowski began coming
in 1970 after public opinion was aroused by the flights and letter
writing campaigns of H. Ross Perot of Dallas were publicized Mrs.
Makowski reports.
Letters from her husband were mostly
about her and the kids she reports. "And he might ask for
some coffee or peanut butter," she said.
In his last letter to the family he
told his children to "have patience with me. There are many
things I will have to adjust to now."
"Once (after receiving pictures)
Lou wrote back worrying about Rhoda's teeth," Mrs. Makowski
said. "Can you imagine a man in a prison camp worrying about
his daughter's teeth?"
MAKOWSKI'S MAIN topic of conversation
was his family though according to two POW's who called the Makowski
family shortly after their release earlier this year.
Air Force Lt. Col. Robert Shumaker
and Lt. Col. John H. Dunn of the U.S. Marines were both in prison
with Makowski- one of them his cellmate for three years. "They
told me he was in good spirits and health," Mrs. Makowski
said. "And they called me 'Kay' as if they'd known me forever.
I guess men in prison camps learn about each other lives in detail."
The USAF personnel at Webb Air Force
Base have maintained regular contact with the Makowski family
...making sure every one was ok and that we didn't need anything."
Mrs. Makowski said.
"AND THEY called to tell me he
wasn't on the list before," she said. "I told the sergeant
'you don't know what you're doing to me,' and he said 'Kay, I
feel as bad as you do about it'."
The good news that came via telephone
last week hasn't stopped her nerves from jangling with the bell
when it rings now, however. The next call may be from her husband.
Asked about her attitude on war protests
of past years Mrs. Makowski answered quietly. I didn't appreciate
them but that was their right. That's why my husband was over
there.
"I CAN SEE how a person who did
not believe in the war would feel resentment," she said.
"But I'm sure Lou feels like he did the right thing."
The family has not received hate mail
or adverse phone calls Mrs. Makowski reports. ''We have mostly
learned about all the wonderful people in the world."
Persons wearing Lou Makowski's POW
bracelet from California to New Jersey have written letters. made
encouraging telephone calls and even sent Christmas packages to
the Makowski family.
"I've answered hundreds of letters,"
Mrs. Makowski said. 'I wrote 24 last Sunday and had eight more
to answer by Tuesday. " SHE IS WAITING until her husband's
return to decide about fanfare" for him. He likes people,"
she said. and he'll probably love it.' Medical examinations and
debriefing will probably come first. however. according to Mrs.
Makowski.
The shock and fear Mrs. Makowski felt
when she learned he was shot down is gone- hopefully she'll never
feel anything like it again.
Now she and the children look only
toward the signals for them to pack and leave-``It will be fast,"
she said laughing when asked how long she'd thought it take for
them to be ready.